My Missings

Hello Wonderfolks! 🖤

Hope you all are doing good.

What are your quarantine Missings?

Sometimes we are made to miss to make us realise the real value of it.

Read further to know what I am missing the most.

1. Friends

Some people arrive and make such a beautiful impact on your life, can barely remember what life was like without them.

– Anna Taylor

My life once completely revolved around them and they were the integral part of it since we spend 8-9 hours together at school. It is this quarantine that made our hangouts impossible and it’s been almost 3 months since I met them. Though we stay in touch through audio and video calls, at the end of the day, I miss them.

I watched a film, Five Feet Apart in the month of April. The leads in the film Cole Sprouse (Will Newman) and Haley Lu Richardson (Stella Grant) are with cystic fibrosis and they are asked to strictly follow the hospital’s protocol – ‘Stay a certain distance (six feets) away from each other to reduce the risk of cross infection.’

The movie begins with a dialogue that makes us realise the importance of human touch.

I have a weird habit of watching a movie (only impressive ones) several times. Each time I watch, I understand the dialogues better and I analyze the characters intensely.

I related myself with this film since I started to yearn for a warm hug when I am low-spirited. Though I am highly self-motivated, I await for it sometimes. I think this is very common to everyone because when you are sad, you expect one pat on your shoulder to encourage and friends do that. Ring up to your friends who were and are present in all your tough times as it is unlikely to meet them right now.

2) God

I am a Religious person who never misses to visit Temple. This became an important part of my routine, since 2019 was worst to me. I wanted to reroute my mind when I faced massive failure and was on the edge of falling into depression (I later realised that it was supposed to be called so).

Let’s not ponder over the past since it’s all over and I ended up learning thoughtful life lessons.

It is rightly said, “Difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations”. In my life, it lead to a thoughtful destination. I grew up wise and spiritual. It healed the mental troubles and ultimately brought peace in life.

It is true that prayers lighten one’s heart and helps in uplifting the confused mind. It was the faith I had in god that provided me ton of positivity.

Prayer is the peace of our spirit, the stillness of our thoughts, the evenness of our recollection, the seat of meditation, the rest of our cares and the calm of our tempest.

– Jeremy Taylor

But yes, you can neither expect to visit temple if you get employed somewhere in Europe nor your friends can promise to accompany you everywhere you go.

Quarantine taught me this:

We must learn to accept the changes that’s happening around us. Understanding and accepting the reality can be the only solution to the prevailing hard times.

‘Let’s learn to Heal and Excel’

So Wonderfolks, what are your major Missings?
Leave them in the comment section below.

Thank you so much for reading 😊.

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Brainstorms Award

Hello Wonderfolks 🖤

Hope you all are doing good!

I’m so much excited for this nomination than the first two because this is really an unexpected one. The two posts prior to this were award nominations too, so I said to myself that my site page would look good with hat trick awards! (Weird wish right!? I know it is…😅).
The next morning Daneelyunus sir DMed me on Instagram about this nomination. A big thanks to him for nominating me. His posts are just mind-blowing. He had been rendering his support since my first post. I’m always grateful to him. Do check his amazing blog posts.


1) Thank the person who nominated you.

2) Tag your post with the Brainstorm award and follow brainstorm, if you are willing.

3) Display the Brainstorms award logo.

4) Talk a bit about your blog, why you started it, what you write on and your goal for your blog.

5) Answer the five questions you’ve been asked. Nominate five amazing bloggers.

6) Ask them five new questions.

About my blog:

I started this blog exactly a month ago to share my opinions and thoughts to the world and also to develop my writing skills.
I write on random topics that comes to my mind and my main motive is to spread positivity. I am planning to write about food and photography in future.
My Goal is to make my Wonderfolks happy and wish to bring smile on their face at least once before they complete reading my post.

Answer time:

1. How do you describe fear? What do you think people need to do, to overcome it?

Fear is an emotion that causes psychological setbacks in one’s life. My advice to overcome fear is to first analyze the reason behind it and sort it out.

2. What has the COVID-19 denied you as a person?

I’m a person who loves to learn something new. I had plans to learn a martial art and to play a musical instrument. But, unfortunately I couldn’t.

3. What’s your favourite colour?

I just love love love black. I wish to redo my room like this.

But, my mom would throw me on the streets.😂😂

4. How do you describe your time at home, during this present lockdown for months?

I spend a lot of time with my family. Blogging became my new hobby during this quarantine. Also, I spend a lot of time reading the posts of my fellow bloggers.

5. What’s your favourite blog post?
That’s my favourite post. Do check it out.

My Questions:

1) What inspired you to start blogging?

2) Have you ever wished to experience the life of your opposite gender?

3) Do you have the habit of laughing during serious situations?

4) Share any funny incident that happened at school?

5) What do you do for relaxation?

My Nominees:

1) Tanaka_tkzy

2) Blogs by J

3) Tangie T. Woods

4) Lampelina

5) offshorewriter

Congratulations to all the Nominees for this award! You guys are amazing…

See you later- Wonderfolks 🖤

Happy Blogging!

Food Award

Hello Wonderfolks 🖤

I have been nominated by Daneelyunus for this award. A big thanks to him for nominating me. He is the most knowledgeable person I met through blogging. Do check his works:

Do visit the creator of this award, I always look up to her wonderful writings:

I’m in love with this featured image since it has my favourite baby corns, mushrooms and strawberries.


1. Thank the person who nominated you with a link to their blog.
2. Make a post of the award (with a photo of the logo).
3. Post the rules
4. Ask 5-10 questions of your choice.
5. Nominate 10-30 other bloggers (or more) and notify them.


1. What do you usually have for breakfast?

Since I’m a Tamilian, idly or dosa with sambhar and chutney is the usual one.

2. Are you personally a good cook?

Only the people who taste my food has the rights to answer this question. I don’t think they’ll put me down, I’m a good cook too😅.

3. Do you like chocolates? What is your favourite type?

I’m a Chocolaterian❤️. I love all kinds of chocolates but bar chocolates are even more special.

4. Which type of food you can never ever eat when someone threatens to eat it?

I don’t think people would threaten me to eat something weird. But I would refuse to eat anything that’s too bitter!

5. Which food did you or you are eating forcefully?

I hate UPMA😭 that my mom makes once in a week.

I nominate all my fellow Bloggers for this award. Questions will remain the same.

Happy Blogging!!!

See you later- Wonderfolks 🖤

My First Award Nomination

I’m delighted to receive The Vincent Ehindero Awesome Blogger Award.

I would like to thank Tanaka_tkzy for nominating me. He is being a great friend of mine in the recent days. This future doctor is already doing a great job by providing the right dose of motivation and life advices to his readers. Do visit his blog, I’m sure he inspires you in many ways.

I would also like to thank Vincent Ehindero – The creator of this award for creating this award. Do check his great works.


1. Thank the person who nominated you with a link to their blog.
2. Make a post of the award (with a photo of the logo).
3. Post the rules
4. Ask 5-10 questions of your choice.
5. Nominate 10-30 other bloggers (or more) and notify them.
My response to Tanaka’s questions:

1. What gave you the push to start blogging?                

Ever since, I had been a secret writer who shares all her emotions, regrets and everything to a paper.
To me, paper and pen are the ‘best couple on earth’.
Being idle in the quarantine annoyed me so much and I didn’t want boredom to rule my life. So I decided to spend time productively by writing and posting it on WordPress.
Yeah, that’s how blogging came into my life.

2. Are you proud of the progress you made so far, if not, why?               

Yes, I don’t call it as my pride rather I’m happy for the progress I so far made.
          The acclamations I receive from my friends and fellow bloggers cheer me up.

3. Is blogging your profession or hobby?      

Blogging has turned out to be my favourite hobby.

4. Where do you see yourself in the next five years?    

I would be a 23 year old independent girl and would have completed UG and PG programs.

5. What advice would you give to someone who wants to start a blog  to make money?

 To be honest, I don’t have an answer for this question because I didn’t monetize my blog yet.

6. Where do most of your viewers and visits come from?   

  Most of the views and visits comes from my country India.

7. What is your posting frequency?     Once in every 10 days.

8. Are you doing the most when it comes to fulfilling the demands of your niche?    

Yes, I think I am fulfilling it.

9. How many friends have you made from blogging?   

Almost 15-20 friends and I hope that the count keeps increasing.

10. Do you ever regret any of your posts, if the answer is yes, why?  

No regrets so far.


I would like to nominate the following for this award.

1. Rajani Singh

2. Becca

3. Shivani Dubey

4. Vikas Karmani

5. Kingston Lim

6. Shedrackamy

I pass on the same questions to my nominees.

Happy Blogging!!!

New Hope, Heart

Hello Wonderfolks 🖤

Hope everyone is doing good!

What is your favourite movie?

If someone poses me this question, three Tamil movies tops my list: Mouna Raagam (lit. Silent symphony)- 1986, Rhythm- 2000 and Vaaranam Aayiram (lit. Thousand Elephants)- 2008.

A few go awe with my answer, a few with a sigh, call mine a weird taste and the rest might think its obvious for someone to fall for such films.

Different people react differently.

All the above three movies have very similar plotline – The first love of the leads depart the world. But eventually they end up marrying another person, not in the replacement of their firsts rather they accept to decide the happenings in life.

These movies additionally have melancholic music in their background that connects the audience deeply.

“You can relate movies with life but the vice versa isn’t true always”

-Hemalatha Ramesh 😊

Are you interested to watch these films?😅Here are their links:👇

Mouna Raagam-


Vaaranam Aayiram-

I usually spend a lot of time living inside my head. When I approached these movies with a deeper insight, I realized two things :

Firstly, coping up with the loss of someone we love is honestly arduous but life has to move on and time heals everything.

Secondly, life turns out to be beautiful when we decide to accept the unpredictable moves of it.

Being a student who just completed 12th grade boards, my Indian society believes that my marks out of 500 decides the destination of my life.

And thus, I made two firm decisions:

1) I shall not worry if my marks aren’t sufficient to get into the University that I wished or if I fail to pursue the course that I wanted to.

I am sure life comes up with a backup option to both University and the course that I missed.

2) I would mend my mind to accept the alternative that life offered and work hard to excel in it.

These realizations infused hopefulness in me. I started to understand that something good will happen in the future and I call this as HOPE.

“Hope can be a powerful force. Maybe there is no actual magic in it, but when you know what you hope for most and hold it like a light within you, you can make things happen, almost like magic”.

– Laini Taylor

I realized that instead of being tormented by the worry of the past, one can focus on today to make tomorrow a better one.

Despite setbacks, obstacles, hardships, heartbreaks and misfortunes, let’s still have hope on the next chapter of our life and expect the best to happen.

“Let’s learn to Heal and Excel.”

Never hesitate to leave your thoughts in the comment section below.

Thank you so much for reading.😊

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“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend”.

– Melody Beattie

Hello Wonderfolks!🖤

Hope everyone is doing good.

When did you lastly use the simple phrase ‘Thank you’?

‘Thank you’ can be a simple phrase but it paves road to goodwill and it creates a stronger bond with people around.

‘Thank you’ and ‘Sorry’ are some of the basic gestures that are taught to a Kindergarten kid.

Have you ever wondered why?

According to me, they are taught in the hope to inculcate the idea of being grateful and thankful to everyone. Although, it is nurtured to us right from the beginning stage of life, we fail to cultivate it.

We live in a monotonous life which revolves around preplanned schedules, fixed routines and a lot of commitments. We lack time to appreciate and acknowledge everything that we have and had in life.

In the world where people keep blaming and complaining about being Quarantined but too often we fail to be grateful for everything that we have in abundance. Keeping the COVID-19 chaos apart take some time to be grateful to yourself for being healthy.

“Gratitude makes sense of a past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow”

-Melody Beattie

Everyone of us have our own religion in our hearts. If you believe in the existence of, the Almighty, the Superpower above everything in the world, then use your prayers to elevate gratitude.

This is not only about being spiritual, scientific proofs exist which says that the people who are grateful to God tend to be healthier and happier.

Are you a frequent ‘Thank you’ user?Then a big high five!!!😅

I have got an interesting task :

Write a letter to your mom, dad, friend, or anybody in life you would like to be grateful for. Tell them how much thankful you are and how much they mean to you. This lightens your heart and brightens theirs too.

“In the blink of an eye, it could all be taken away. Be grateful always”.

Let gratitude become our everyday etiquette. It just costs nothing, not even little effort. Let’s be grateful instead of taking things for granted.

Thank you so much for reading! 😇

See you later- Wonderfolks🖤




“When I was 5 years old,my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. when I went to school,they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down ‘happy’. They told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told them they didn’t understand life.”

-John Lennon

Hello Wonderfolks!🖤

Hope everyone is doing good.

Since this is my first post, let’s discuss a topic which is ‘super optimistic’.

How will you define happiness?

How can one be happy?

Do you think happiness lies in materialistic possessions?

Well, although there can be no perfect definition of happiness; it can only be felt within ourselves.

Happiness is not merely a word sometimes we fail to understand the real ones or feel the real happiness. Happiness evades you when you set your expectations so high, when you lower your expectations, find your acceptance and when you start feeling contented, happiness meets you at your doorstep.

Life usually throws countless challenges at us constantly. Crumbling and grumbling over them never pave the way for happiness.

Apart from all this we have so many desires and gradually our mind starts to assume that fulfilling these desires is the only source of happiness. But it is not so,happiness exists in all the pretty little things around us.

I can make you smile…yeah you read it right!😅. I am quite confident that you will smile once you realise that the source of happiness is always around you.

Some find true happiness in playing with pets, some when they engage themselves in the work they enjoy doing. Small things can bring higher levels of happiness. It may tend to be little such as eating delicious food that we cherish, fragrance of flowers, reading old chats, recalling memories etc…

Our photo gallery has enough to bring grin on our face. There exists few pictures which are truly sentimental, funny or some which leave us nostalgic, we neither post them anywhere nor delete them. They stay among the rest with their own uniqueness but the speciality is, they can instigate happiness each time we look at them. I hope you have such pictures which can revive memories and positivity.

I believe that happiness in an energy. According to science,
“Energy can neither be created nor be destroyed but can be transferred from one form to another”.

Not only rumours and gossips, happiness can also spread like wildfires.

“The best way to multiply happiness is to share it.”

Spreading happiness is an Art, not everyone is an Artist in it, but you can become one. Each time we share moments of joy and positivism we indulge in the art of spreading it. Smile is a natural expression of happiness which directly comes from heart. Your smile can melt away all your negative feelings. Respond to any kind of outward manifestation that approaches you with a smile. So, make your world shine with your sizzling smile!

I hope I brought a wide smile on your face. Let me know in the comment section,DM me on Instagram or send me a mail.

See you later- Wonderfolks!🖤



Welcome to my Blog



Warm wishes!

Thank you so much for checking my blog out.

A little about me:

              I’m Hema and I’m 17. I had always been passionate about writing, that’s the reason I decided to start a blog and pour my thoughts here.
This blog is going to be all about, what a 17 y/o perceives life to be, all my thoughts, so called advices and much more.

I would like to address my readers as ‘WONDERFOLKS’ (don’t Google, no such word exists). Just wanted to add some spark to the common word ‘FOLKS’.

          I love to stay ‘uncommon’!


Since I strongly believe in the above saying, my blogs won’t be focusing readers of particular age group but I’m pretty sure that teens can relate themselves a lot to my writings.

Stay tuned for more!

Have any suggestions?
Leave them in the comment section,
DM me on Instagram or send me a mail.

See you later- Wonderfolks 🖤